Boudoir and Your Journey to Self Love
As women we are programmed to come up with reasons why we aren’t worthy of something we want. We learn from a young age we should always put other’s needs first, especially if you are a mother. But I am a firm believer that if you don’t fill up your own cup first, you won’t have anything left in your tank to give to others. Self care and self love are NECESSARY to living the most fulfilling and happy life you can.
A Boudoir Session is often a life changing experience for my clients. Many of them are moms or just women who want to be refreshed in their femininity and womanhood. They leave my studio with a whole new sense of self worth and confidence that a bubble bath or pedicure just doesn’t compare to!
But I’m too (Fill in the Blank)!
Think about all the mean things you say to yourself or about yourself every day. I’m too fat! I’m too old! I have no boobs! My butt is too big! I’m ugly! My thighs touch! I’ve got back rolls! My tummy sags! I have mom bod! Whatever those negative thoughts are, please throw them the hell out the window! Even if you never do a Boudoir Session, PLEASE stop picking yourself apart. I dare you to find one thing you love about yourself every day and think about that instead.
The journey to self love, exactly how you are RIGHT NOW, isn’t easy, I know that. I’m human just like you! But it’s amazing how shifting your mindset to one thing you love instead of the things you hate, will totally change your life! Now don’t get me wrong, if there’s something you want to work on, like getting defined abs or losing weight, I’m your biggest cheerleader! But there is absolutely no need to hate yourself along the way. In fact, the more positive you are, the better results you will attain!
Why Boudoir?
Now how does this tie into Boudoir? Well for starters, it’s my JOB to make you look your best. Yes even if you have areas that make you self conscious. I know all the tricks and poses to minimize those areas and accentuate what you love about yourself! Plus I’m a master of flattering lighting.
A Boudoir Session may also take you out of your comfort zone. It involves being vulnerable and putting yourself out there, even if you and I are the only ones who will ever see your photos. The fact is, you are going to be blown away by your photos and I can’t wait for you to see yourself through my lens!
Boudoir May Not Be For You If…
A Boudoir Session is a transformative experience, but there are some circumstances where you may not be ready for it. If you have body dysmorphia, are suffering from an eating disorder, or have any other form of mental illness or depression around your self esteem I do not recommend a Boudoir Session, YET! Why? Because no matter how GORGEOUS and AMAZING you look in your photos, you won’t be able to see it. I highly recommend seeing a mental health professional and working through your stuff before experiencing Boudoir.
I’ll be right here waiting for you when the fog has cleared and you are open to seeing the drop dead gorgeous BOMBSHELL that you are!
From Natural Beauty to BOMBSHELL
Boudoir is for every woman. You may be scrolling through my portfolio, thinking “Wow these ladies look like magazine models, I don’t look like that, I never could look like that!” Well guess what? YOU CAN! My clients aren’t models out of a magazine, they are regular everyday ladies who are embracing their beauty and channeling their inner BOMBSHELL and you can too! Check out these stunning transformations:
“Before my session I was super nervous, I wondered if Rachel would get any good photos of me and if this would all be worth it. But she made me feel so comfortable and confident! It’s fun to feel like the center of attention for a bit and I had a blast!”
“Rachel is absolutely amazing at what she does! She makes you extremely comfortable and is excellent at helping newbies pose to create phenomenal photos!”
“I was a little nervous going in, but excited. Afterwards I left feeling BOMB. The shoot was a lot of fun! Getting my makeup & hair done was a fun experience and left me feeling gorgeous.”
““My friend had done several shoots with Rachel and I really wanted to do one. For her bachelorette party we had the opportunity to do a boudoir shoot with Rachel and I was nervous. I’ve had 2 kids and I’m self conscious, but Rachel made me feel very comfortable. During the shoot she gave me direction on what to do and made me feel at ease. In the end I have these absolutely beautiful photos and a wonderful experience. I can’t wait to do it again!”
“My boudoir experience was a great gift to myself. Rachel did an amazing job of making sure I got beautiful pictures and making it fun and comfortable.”
“Rachel is GREAT! I had such a great time at my session and she was so fun to work with. I love all of my photos and can’t wait to do it again!”
Tia's Boudoir Experience
“To everyone who is worried about problem areas/appearance for a boudoir shoot, I just want to reassure you (as someone who gets awkward in front of a camera while trying to look “sexy”) that Rachel will make you look and feel beautiful. She is a pro when it comes to flattering poses and is an absolute genius with lighting. She’s also very encouraging and positive during the session, I didn’t feel self conscious at all once we got started. I highly recommend you try it out, I’m positive you will be happy with the results!”
